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post #21 of 24 Old 02-03-2010, 11:07 AM
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ok here is my 1 and 1/2 cents..
if you dont feel comfortable letting her have it verbally (i agree it should be done to drive the message home) then write it out and give it to her or mail it if you must. but let the person know why and how you feel about it perhaps if nothing else she may begin to explore herself and realize why she is alone (this may take years btw). and because i dont know this person i can only assume that she has a magnified vindictive streak so cover your self and make the barn owner aware of her habits and if you find that she is riding your horse i would attempt to get authorities involved... i would never suggest that you handle her on your own ('cuz that would be wrong *cough* gasp* EXPLITIVE) but be safe and be sure you are legally covered....

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post #22 of 24 Old 02-03-2010, 08:56 PM
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In my experience if someone is a jerk it usually means they're hiding something pretty painful.

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post #23 of 24 Old 02-03-2010, 09:39 PM
I agree with you, HopeInHeart. People who are in emotional pain often lash out at other people.
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post #24 of 24 Old 02-04-2010, 07:55 AM
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That's why I pity this girl HopeInHeart and dramaqueen, because as much as you are willing to be there for them and help them, it is up to themselves to rise above their own hurts to be a better person, but sometimes they just don't know how to.. I have been around people like that and it is hard for everyone involved.



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