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post #11 of 24 Old 02-02-2010, 08:37 PM
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or rather what he suggested

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post #12 of 24 Old 02-02-2010, 09:59 PM
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I have issues with people who touch my things without my permission. I would probably go ballistic.
Maybe I just have the wrong mind set onight...but this just kinda sorta sounds a LITTLE uhm...wrong maybe?

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post #13 of 24 Old 02-02-2010, 10:07 PM
You mean it's wrong for me to get mad because someone touches or uses my things without my permission?
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You mean it's wrong for me to get mad because someone touches or uses my things without my permission?
no absolutely not...just not too sure what that had to do with the OP

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post #15 of 24 Old 02-02-2010, 11:12 PM
She was talking about that girl riding other people's horses without their permission, I think.
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post #16 of 24 Old 02-02-2010, 11:28 PM
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You could always challenge her to a cage match...sounds like she has a smack down comin
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post #17 of 24 Old 02-02-2010, 11:46 PM
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I'm going through something similar. I gave up yesterday. I'm done being friends with her. I told her off. It's the end of our friendship. And you know what? I feel so much better. Sometimes it's better to be blunt.

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post #18 of 24 Old 02-03-2010, 12:35 AM
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Maybe I just have the wrong mind set onight...but this just kinda sorta sounds a LITTLE uhm...wrong maybe?
LOLOL I think I got it... unless my mind is more in the gutter than yours.


Anyways, if this is how she has always been, I doubt she's gonna change. But if that's how she has always been, I question how you became friends in the first place??? There must have been something that made you become friends in the first place. If she hasn't always been like this maybe something in her life has changed and made her unhappy or w/e... if that's the case try to help her through it. I'd tell her what I thought. Be honest. Tell her if she doesn't change you don't want to continue to be friends with her. If not, then as people have said, you don't need people like that in your life. People you allow in your life by choice that are like that you don't need.

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post #19 of 24 Old 02-03-2010, 02:54 AM
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there is nothing better than to let it all out sometimes
i just wonder if a person like her would even be bothered ?
she'll just move onto the next person and do the same.
sometimes people womble into your life without being asked,and they just happen,
well to me anyway,i think i'm a bit of a nutter magnet.

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post #20 of 24 Old 02-03-2010, 08:33 AM
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does your BF know how you feel? what does he think? ultimately though you have a right to say what you are feeling to her.

I kinda pity her from what you say, though whatever is going on in her mind gives her no excuse to be a jerk. I do feel bad for HER BF too, but I guess he wanted a jerk for a GF...

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