Thanks for the message bettalover! I'm sure that I will have many questions particularly if I can convince my hubby to let me get a 5.5, which I will of course cycle. I'm mourning my non-existent, never-existed sorority because a 20 gallon home tank is a no go for him.

I'm debating on whether or not to divide the 5.5 and get two big girls or two boys or just get a queen or king of the castle and shrimpies for entertainment/snacking. Your thoughts on this would be appreciated.