Sorry for the late reply. I never noticed the message! Two aspies usually have trouble getting along, especially when they are different genders. It part of the reason my dad and I argue so much I think. I hope living with your mom has helped you and that you're proud of who you are.
I have aspergers too. It's nice to know that there are more people like me out on the internet. Especially in the forum! I love animals (I kinda have a thing against humans, actually ^^).
My dad has aspergers too, and sometimes we fight because we are quite similar. I moved in with my mom because he was just stressing me out too much. Now I have 6 cats inside, 5 cats outside, and 15 bettas. (All in heated and filtered tanks)