so, i just noticed that my female no longer looks fat and the dark gravid spot is gone. i'm going to guess she had the babies, even though i can see any of them. hopefully they are just hiding in the water sprite. though it is likely they've been eaten already, i suppose. hopefully they didn't get sucked up my filter (HOB). oh well. maybe i'll see some in a few days, if not there's always next time.
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