It does seem like gourami are a bit of hit or miss. But I hope there will be enough hiding spaces in my 29 for everyone to get along.
That being said, since all has been clean in the QT for a week, I'm putting everyone in the main tank! I took off the lid and.... MORE EGGS!!

I can't make them stop breeding!
Everyone is in the main tank now. The aggression between the two females appears to be much less now. Thank you Jes for that suggestion! But I'm waiting for the lights to come on tomorrow... who knows if the peace will stay.
The loaches are going nuts... expected that. They are loaches after all. Jes, I don't envy you.. having to catch loaches smaller than mine. Patience, a big net, and a little luck lol!
AND! To make things better I snapped a few pics of everyone in the new tank before I sent them to bed!

The happy couple wishing everyone a happy Valentine's Day!

Mr Sunshine and one of his ladies as well as the loaches. These are the new guys... the old ones are more red-brown.

And one of my two ladies.