I recently went to my lfs to buy a pair of blue rams. I know that they do best in a bonded pair but the rams in the store were so young it was hard to tell their sex apart. The guy from the store suspected from the start that somehow a Bolivian Ram from the tank next to it somehow got into the Blue Ram tank and we tried to avoid it, but after an hour of staring at the tank and trying to catch one that might be a male, we forgot about the might-be-Bolivian, and I think that's what we took home thinking it was a male.
I'll post pictures in next post, but could someone tell me if it is a Bolivian or if it really is a Blue, whether its a male or female? I feel like I might have to take him/her back. If I do, I'm gonna have to try another store (they were really helpful, but it almost looked like all their Blue Rams were female).