Drs. Foster and Smith, a great pet store that has incredible prices and selection on fish equipment and supplies (and every other animal) is located in Rhinelander, Wisconsin. I have no idea if that is near the SE, since I am from CO, but they are amazing. If something comes broken, they will replace it, no questions asked. I have bought from them over 15 times. Pleased every time. And, since you are located in WI, you could have cheap shipping.
And, they run Liveaquaria.com. I know you said you dont trust online, but please give these guys a shot. I have ordred Clownfish from them, and I will buy from them again. Perfect fish, and they come with a 2 week guarentee.
Links: http://www.drsfostersmith.com/product/shop.cfm?c=3578 http://www.liveaquaria.com/
Please look at them.
Now, to your questions.
Everything looks great so far. Just make sure you cycle your tank. A little more LR would do good.
You want to add the Scooter last. These are a type of Mandarin Goby, and need a lot of copepods, amphipods, etc to survive. Only a mature tank has a good supply of these, so add him after 6 months+. Make sure he eats something (like mysis, cyctophleeze, brine, etc) at the store.
Dont get an anemone for the clownfish. They just grow too big for the tank. But, clowns will host other things like Frogspawn, Pulsing Xenia, and otehr branchy corals. Even zoas and mushrooms sometimes.